It is impossible to go through life without ever having an argument. So I think it’s a very good idea to learn how to actually have a healthy argument. The trick to having a healthy argument with someone is this:Don’t ever try to win an argument.Always argue towards peace. You probably know these situations in …
This is a quick intro to one of the most transformative rituals for modern warriors. I remember doing various versions of this ritual when I was younger and strongly believed in heroes. Yesterday night I re-discovered it and would like to share it with all my fellow warriors out there. I think the two most …
More and more I realise that my life takes place in different realities: Nature, Society and the Digital Realm. This is a quick exploration of these different realities. I had a pretty long and deep work-session this morning. I spend a lot of time, effort and energy working on the laptop. After that, I went …
Yesterday I killed another living being. It was an accident. And maybe the universe has such accidents as well from time to time. I was training outside, when my jumping-rope broke. I went into one of our sheds to fix it. Still occupied with the rope on my way back, I stepped on a little …
I had a wonderful insight about discipline and playfulness. About how they fit into my life and how both secretly support and benefit from each other. I enjoy discipline. I enjoy getting up early every morning and move my body. I enjoy training hard, pushing my body to its limits. I enjoy sitting down to …
Here is an interesting little theory that me and my girlfriend talked about. Her period just started and she told me that she started to smell more strongly because of the stress it creates in her body. We have noticed the same thing the last few times she had her period. I never paid much …
If you find yourself at a crossroads in life, if you are faced with a difficult situation, do this: Listen three ways. Three-Way-Listening means listening with your body, your heart and your mind. By doing this, you gain access to the wisdom of your whole being and this is important and can be of great …
Yesterday was Claras birthday and I would like to share a certain moment that was both very intimate, playful and deep. In the afternoon she was feeling cold and wanted to take a bath. I came with her but just sat next to the bathtub, wrapped in a woolen blanket. I sang her a playfully …
I just came home from meeting someone I barely know and did not like it one bit. We went for a walk and the talk in the woods. It was one of those meetings where you simply spend time together. I feel completely drained. And just found out that there’s nothing wrong with that. There’s …
It seems that all of a sudden Maria has met man she feels very passionately about and it leaves me with mixed feelings. I was baby-sitting Mia when she had a date and it was an interesting mix of emotions when she came back home the next morning rosy-cheeked, smiling and wearing a sweater that …